However, she is looking for another man to do that very thing for her!
How can there be any hope if a waw is looking for another man?
I think every female has a inner desire of wanting some man who would make her "swoon". (I believe that was the term I used in the post you are referring to.) That's not heard about too much in this day & time, but I was trying to make a point to you when I used that description of not expecting her to mistrust herself b/c she feared she would swoon at your nearness. However, in her WAW frame of mind......she may possibly be looking for some man who would actually cause her to feel that way. Not every WAW is on the prowl, of course, but if your W feels that she has missed out on romance, passion, etc., then she could be consciously or unconsciously looking & wondering if that man is out there.
Now, are you just going to lay down and give up simply b/c she may be thinking like that? If that was the case, how in the world did you ever capture her heart in the first place? I thought it was man's nature to persuade the female to believe he would be the best catch amoung any other in the world. Isn't that the attitude you should still have?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
