Originally Posted By: Gnosis
Good job.

BTM: "No - we, well I have made great progress getting used to sleeping alone and that would be a step backwards"
OK response but Too Much Info. A better answer would have been:
"No. I wouldn't want you to get wrong idea."

Your the MAN remember?
- Men don't talk. We "DO."
- We keep our answers as short as possible.
- Our actions communicate.

On your vacation keep your eyes OFF your W and ON any piece of interesting fluff that passes by. Check them out. You're a MAN and you got needs. When you look at your W you have a critical or bored look on your face. Communicate indirectly that she doesn't "do it" for you anymore. Any outfits she wears you give her a bored look once over and look away.

EDIT: And then watch her start to jump through hoops to get your attention. Keep "running away" to draw her in.


I do like your response better than mine, but I think mine was ok too.

I have mentioned before that my WAW is totally hot. She always dresses to show while we are on vacation. I will be sure to not let her catch me looking. I won't go so far as to look critical, but I will look uninterested. And yes, I will make sure she "catches" me looking at other women.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.