I agree with you. I went through the Retrouvaille program with my W, but her heart wasn't in it. She never had any intention of reconciliation. It broke my heart b/c I had expectations.
-LFH
And I'm willing to take the risk of being hurt again, but not if she says she isn't willing to take the risk of it as well (i.e., willing to consider reconciliation and explore her issues with the M).
