I agree with you. I went through the Retrouvaille program with my W, but her heart wasn't in it. She never had any intention of reconciliation. It broke my heart b/c I had expectations.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009