Glad to see that you are keeping busy today. Been catching up on your thread and I know what you mean when you can see yourself walking away from your M. You can become battle wearing hanging in there so long. More importantly, with any battle you want to win at least some victories if you can't win the war and it is hard to keep on fighting when the other "side" shows no sign of letting up or no real chink in the armor.
You are a good guy and you have given it your all. When you run from a M without truly trying or even committing to counselling what does this bode for the survival of your future relationships? Nothing good. Our spouses may learn the hard way.
Kara,
I just see no way my sitch is going to change with pursuing MC when her mind and heart are not in it for the right reasons.
