So i got an email from him responding to my request for his schedule this week and when he would be out of the house, picking up daughter from school, etc. He will mostly be working nights and/or staying with his brother all week. I'm fine with all of it except I'm not sure how to word a response about this. He says he has a work function on Thursday night and he wants to return home after. I am not ok with this because I do not believe it's a work function or if at least it is, he will see the OW before, as he did the last 2 work functions, or maybe even taking her with him. How do I phrase it to let him know it is not ok to return home after the work function because I don't believe him and I don't want him in the house after a date? I already set the boundary that it was not ok for him to be out with OW and then come home after, that I would not stand for that, but I'm not sure how to respond without sounding winey or begging for anything. PS- after our 2 nights of uneventful conversations, we have not spoken. I guess this is what going dark is?
