Well it's about time you used that gray matter of yours and got clued up on the legalities. This is the first thing I did when the bomb dropped.
This is GREAT news for you Lost. Now go and get a free consult for legal counsel. Be proactive. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. The more knowledge you have the more reassured you will be. I'm betting that you can prolong the process in your state for up to two years.
You're mama-bear and you gotta lookout for them cubs of yours. Work towards reconciliation while you prepare for divorce.
