Have you read around on Newcomers to see what works and what doesnt - NOMAD, Boundaries,Puppy-My Story, RockedWorld, AFlowerGirlie, Counting Crows, Soldier Dad, Wonderful.
Here's your best shot - Boundaries/Tough Love + Loving Detachment= Busted Affair
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
