I recieved some info confirming OW, on the same day so did some people close to H. These people contacted OW and let her know H had also been seeing me. OW did not know this, H had said we were basically divorced. OW seems to have broken it off with H. H does not know that I know about OW.
H is obviously not in a great place at the moment, but seems to still be intent on moving out and currently is directing a lot of his anger towards me. I am trying to sit back and wait for the dust to settle, and make sure things stay calm. I am holding up ok, but it is very difficult in the house at the moment. H is only here for a couple more days before going back to work, so I will be able to regroup better then. My plans have not changed, but I need to up my PMA again. I am going ok in general.