Hi Rocked good to see you over here! I know how you feel about things now surfacing which you have kept a lid on whilst getting to this point. A few things have spilled out for me over the last few days, I think its how you handle that is important, I had a teary angry moment this morning, but H said sorry about what had happened and we talked about how we would handle things, then he key bit is to just let it go. My H had no A but he treated me pretty shodderly at times and all of those times need to be talked about, for me this time it has to be about healing and moving on, before when we have fallen out I have to admit to sulking and maybe making him pay for it, that certainly wont be happening ever again, as PDT is fond of saying its time for the "big girl panties"


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!