They are so confusing. I know what you mean. One minute their cold, the next hot. I'm still going through those phases. I think its because they themselves are still confused as to what they want. I haven't learned how to deal with this yet. My main action always goes back to "act as if"...it works..
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14