Today, I finally got to talk to SIL. She has avoided the situation being W and I. SIL got divorced the same way. H left for OW. She says she feels my pain.
SIL stated that MIL & she do not like what is going on. They say right now they do not even know what is going on with my W. That she is not the person they know anymore. SIL thinks she is on drugs.
W stopped by for FIL's birthday and SIL says she could tell.
I helped a friends daughter move furniture today and while helping her move, came across W and OM @ OM's parents house. I feel like I should just go there, confront everyone in this home and get my wife back. W did not see me there. As quick as I noticed, I left.
Friends daughter just so happened to be moving in next door to OM. Boy, this just keeps getting better and better.
I wish I knew how to bust this thing up!!!
Thanks for the ear.... please advise...
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"