Last year, the first year we were separated I skipped cards all together because we had always listed all out names. This year (yes, this has been going on a year and a half) I am going to do a pic of my son and dogs and just sign with The _______'s. I agree that is who we are whether he is a part of it or not. I tend to do to much to make it easy on him, and I would guess you are the same. It's hard to stop helping and doing for someone when that is the way it has always been. But, they wont ever realize what they are loosing if you keep doing it. I would take the pic let him know and he can get his own pic if he want's or you can share the image but let him order his own. I personally will send card out to his family because they are my family too and I think I talk to them more than he does. And, they will send cards to me, not him.
