I feel my progress of detachment has come crumbling down. About a week or so ago, my WAS and I started talking to each other again and doing things together. Now she feels we are going to "fast" and doesnt want to just get back together. (More details on this in my other thread). With the time ive spent with her, I cant stop thinking about her and want to be with her more. Feels like I just became attached again... What a bad feeling...
She's finding that despite her protests, she still has feelings for you. This confuses her, so she's pulling back.
It's normal. So give her some space.
As for not wanting to "just get back together", I agree with her 100%. You should tell her "I agree; our relationship was not healthy, and I'm willing to work with you to make it better."
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
