Haha, GIMA, stop by my latest post in Surviving the big d.
I am holding up, in the face of some ridiculous stuff. Since you may be heading down the same road I am, you can use my last couple months as a roadmap for things to watch out for, and things not to do..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."