Not Me...Ever part 2

[TrentC]

I know what it's like for the newbies to be all raw and hurting and reacting -- I did every wrong thing I could think of the first couple of weeks.

I'm thankful that I discovered DB and DR about the time my wife had her surgery; it gave us a break where I could get my act together.

I think I need to take sandi's list of things to do/not do and make a copy of it for myself. That should be the first thing posted to any new person's sitch.