I don't know - based on what my W has said (won't go to a reconciliation C with you) and the lack of emotion on her part, I see MC as a dead end (cheeseless tunnel). Am I being pessimistic or just a realist - fine line b/w those two. Also, if the discussion strays into talk dealing with our R - I suspect she would simply shut down, MC is over.
I can be persuaded, but right now, given her mindset, I see MC as further pursuit by me and simply delaying the inevitable.