Keep your compassion for your H, it serves you better in the long run than anger.

Watching and waiting is the hard part, but its all we can do. Loving with detachment and letting our spouses figure out what they need to.

It'll probably get worse for your H before things improve. Be there for your kids, work on yourself and fill your life with goodness.


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.