I can honestly now utter the WAS "script." I am not attracted to her. I love her, but I'm not in love with her. I believe I could be attracted to her again and could fall in love with her again, but I cannot do that alone. She has to do the work as well. And she, quite simply, does not want to, for whatever reason. Reason doesn't matter, b/c the result is the same - she does not want to be M'd to me anymore. And while that's not what I want, I DESERVE BETTER.
What would happen if you went to the MC instead of refusing, but once at the MC you told her this.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
