I haven't responded to any TM or email. I'm not going to file either. I will drag my heels as long as I can. I hope his transfer is for sure. I really do. He needs to be alone and lonely in a new country. Be inconvenienced and away from OW. Hopefully then, he can't escape his emotions and realize what the he!! he has done.
I read a very interesting article about narcassists someone else posted on their thread.
It's pretty much DBing, but it was presented in a way that struck home for me. My narcassist WAH is attracted to the status OW has and her control. I've become needy, clingy, and weak. I've lost my boundaries and his respect and even my own self-respect. I have renewed strength to get a new life and live for me and I'm going to forget about trying to save my marriage. I'm going to be a stronger woman, get a NEW life, and try to stop a divorce.
BTW newmama, I saw The Women last night. More reinforcement for becoming a new me. Thanks for the recommendation!
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
