Well BBJ, if someone says to me they would rather do their nails than meet for a drink...I would get it....YOU are not into him. There is nothing wrong with that. You say you would be glad to have a drink with him sometime (that does not sound too enthisiastic). Just tell him you are not interested (although he should have figured it out). I see a pattern... you are nice...too nice. I got a hunch you do not really like this guy (it may be an ego boost) or you would have stopped with the nails and met him for a drink. My suggestion to you BBJ is be honest and true to your feelings. This way you will avoid upchucking and being annoyed by persistent men.