Then the real heart-breaker. I was just there-there'ing and Daddy-is-here'ing and it's-okay-to-cry-on-my-shoulder-that's-my-job'ing, and in the midst of her go-to list of stars that just don't shine as brightly anymore, she stopped dead in her tracks, flipped over on her side to look me straight in the eyes and said, "Oh no! This is happening to you, too!" It was if she realized for the first time that she and Brother aren't the only ones with feelings.