Hi Maria, I am sure a lot gets lost translation but even I am confused by these last few paragraphs.
Are you going full force ahead with your own life---thereby no longer waiting for your H to catch you up and do what you need him to do to restore your marriage. The marriage is over but you are not going to file OR the marriage is not over yet. H saying "ok then, agreed, I will do as you please this time". means he IS going to do all the things you have repeatedly told him you need, OR was he agreeing that he was not going to try anymore and will give you your divorce.?
Somewhere,somehow Maria you have to get off this limbo train.
