Thanks ((((Dusk)))) Rooting for you too! Taking things day by day.... we discuss and make progress every day. H is now booked in for IC and has agreed to meet with pastor. One day at a time...
Hi Friends, thought I should stop by. I have not been on the boards because I am putting all my energy into putting this marriage back together... things are going well. It is difficult, but definitely going well. I think I will start a thread on the "piecing" forum b/c I think that is where my sitch belongs now. I know it is early to say this, there is still a long road ahead... but I do believe my sitch is further proof that DBing can and does work. I will try to stop by here when I am not so consumed by my current sitch... I want to offer a bit here and there from someone who has been there.... Rocked
Hi Friends, thought I should stop by. I have not been on the boards because I am putting all my energy into putting this marriage back together... things are going well. It is difficult, but definitely going well. I think I will start a thread on the "piecing" forum b/c I think that is where my sitch belongs now.
It's good to hear from you, and it's great to hear that things are going well.
Keep it up, and take care of yourself.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Rocked--I just read all your previous posts, to catch up on your whole story. It is inspiring to realize you started all this about the same time I did--but have had so much more strength,courage, and conviction to get through this.
I will re-read your posts to learn more about your story and how you handled it.
As my WAH is still in A and shows no sign of interest in our R, the particulars of my sitch are a bit different, but what is the same is the necessity of handling it with grace and courage.
Good luck with your piecing--I will look for you there.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
Me: 35 yrs H: 35 yrs D: 18 yrs Married: 21 yrs H is over seas : July. 2009, "not happy now..confused" "don't know what I want" "I love you, but not in love with you" Currently: confused and lonely
