Glad your feeling beter Al, hope the party is great. I didn,t mean to sound harsh,believe me I have had many duvet days and issolated myself too often and now I see that I did myself no favours. Yep, hear you on the job thing and when its another factor it all gets too much. Strange with the dreams. I had a fling awhile ago,I knew it was just that but had fun. I ended it but every now and again I want it back. How I expect any man to understand me when I am a mystery to myself is beyond me lol.