I'm quite sad this morning as his life is appears so pathetic now. He is even starting to let his children down. Like most men on this journey he is in huge debt and all he keeps saying is 'I have a huge payment coming through next month!. He has his own business and if he doesn't get his head screwed back on that will be at risk, something that would never previously happened.
He has changed the christmas plans so many times I have lost the plot. He appears to have changed them again. He tells D19 but doesn't tell my S15 and 13. Who knows whats happening! He has no memory of conversations we have had or plans been made. He is supposed to be coming to a christmas concert on 22nd Dec, which he appears to have completely forgotten about despite being excited about it 6 weeks ago when I bought the tickets.
He chose to spend his birthday with OW and then told me last night that the eldest D21 had sent him a birthday card. No one else did, but then he chose not to be with them or contact them! I just said 'Oh that's nice'. I don't even know his address to send any cards even if the children had asked.
All this in the 13 weeks since he moved out to be with her and he told me I was the ogre of the piece, yea right! He seems to be getting into a worse mess by the week. I know this is the path but while OW is there he won't progress through his tunnel or start hiswake up from this nightmare.
Trouble is I feel for him. After 33 years together it is hard to pull away but I have to save myself and the children. We'll just have to wait and watch.
