Forward, NC would be the easiest way for me to detach. It is not going to happen though unless he ditched us. Thank you for posting on my other thread- I hadn't checked it out in weeks. I'm sorry about your sitch but at the same time you sound healthy!
Cutterbug, You are right ultimately. But I have a friend who didn't tell everyone, her H was remorseful, and she was relieved to not have to deal with the tension and judgment toward her WH when they hung out with them.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
