Cogal I'm sorry to hear it did not go as well as you hoped. Remember this is a process and this night was just the first try. Look on it as a practise run and go forward from there. Why not ask your H about what happened. I mean why did he give you the smiley face, take the viagara and then not do anything? He clearly had the right intentions so what put him off? Next time will be better if you can sort this out. Don't be afraid to ask him, but do it in a nice way. If you feel you won't be able to do that right now maybe you should wait for your next C appt and talk about it there. But be positive. I guess this is not easy for your H either. He is making progress in what is really a very short time so give him another chance.
