he...he...he...he. I dont care about him- the bottom line right now is that this is not the man that you married - is he? Has he always acted like this? How are you going to make your life better? I know that you have a lot of things on your mind right now... which is why it is an excellent time to come up with a plan!

I know that its hard, and I know that its scary, but I really feel like you are not even acknowledging what Im saying. If you want help, we can offer help, but you have to calm down and listen.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...