I mean if we R, it would be nice to have some people that didn't know about the A for us to be around, you know?
Those who are nice to be around will not judge you based on the A. And 5 to 10 years down the road. Most people will have had enough on their own plate to deal with, so its a non issue. Plus how can we explain away the grey hairs...
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!