b4 i can even work on these things, dad gets taken to icu...he is now stable
h comes through again, at first he said he would sleep here just in case... i thank him and he he starts getting really pissy. i leave the room, he tucks the girls in and then follows me into the kitchen saying he has to get going...ok thats fine, i am drained i just want to go to bed...
he then starts into an almost rant on how he is finally sticking up for himself and doing for him...he moved out and now he intends on filing for d after the first of the year...
how everyone is on him about how wrong this all is, what about his girls, what about his wife...basically what the hell is wrong with him...i calmly approach who everyone may be, his sister, mom dad...
WHY and HOW could he end a day like today like this???
he has a new group of friends, both male and female, has talked about them freely all along...phone calls and where he was going and the such. no one i really know. he has isolated pretty much anyone that knows us as a couple for whatever the reason may be...
what do i do here? the new year is a few weeks away, i am scared stiff...
he has no good reasons, those that had any true merit in the beginning are long gone because i have taken care of them...
Gno, please help me here again, my marriage is sacred to me and my family is most of my world...wtf can i do???
why wont this man give our family and marriage a chance at being reunited?
i just dont get it...he will not work on anything here...not even himself. it also scares me because this is clearly NOT the man i know and love.
its like Jeckyll and Hyde...
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...
