3 things I'm thankful for 1. Took DD to see The Princess and Frog tonight. We went with friends and their kids and we all had pizza after. It was great. 2. That I've been able to stay positive and have not reacted like a crazy woman even with negative things - i.e. H's bank statement, H not showing up yesterday and so on. 3. H put a little effort into contacting me today
H and I ended up texting a bit today after I asked if he could watch DD tomorrow. Since we were texting, I decided to follow the advice from blurain and basically tell him that it was disappointing that he disrespected our DD by not showing up yesterday and that I hope she's too young to remember and that it doesn't happen again. He responded by saying he was upset about it and he undestands what I was saying. Wow...okay...maybe he reacted better bc I didn't get ugly about it (thanks to bluerain) - instead I just stated the facts in a calm manner.
After the movie, he asked what DD and I were doing. He said he was glad we had fun tonight and then he texted to say he was gonna invite us to his boss's house to get in the hot tub. What? What? What? What? Did I really just type that? Not sure what it means, but that's okay.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010