Yes he does and unfortunately there is nothing you can do for him. I've a friend who was married to an S/A. Even after 18 months of therapy he was still doing the same. She eventually left, but not before contracting an STD.
Originally Posted By: aflowergurlie
I'm in shock,
Yes you are and I'm deeply sympathetic to your sitch. (((AFG))) You have been through a lot the past few days and the way you have handled yourself is commendable.
Originally Posted By: aflowergurlie
Just don't know how I should handle my interaction with him when he returns to this house.
You ignore him. If he tries to trap you into conversation you tell him, "I have a lot on my mind and have nothing to say to you at the moment." or "I'm not sure what I'm thinking. When I figure it out I'll let you know. In the meantime stay out of my face." or "You really don't want to know what I'm thinking right now. I need some space to make sense of all this."
With all you've been through this will be easy. Just take your time. If you can, take those credit cards and book yourself into a fancy hotel for a few days for some R & R. You deserve it.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
