Actually, he's the one who said he wanted to go to counseling...so there was no dragging him in on my part. We have our 3rd counseling session on Thurs. The first two were very difficult, and he did apologize to me after the 2nd one. We have had a more peaceful week this week, which has been nice for both of us.
Maybe when all is said and done, my H will even be able to say NO to my 15 year old daughter and her gaggle of friends. They're constantly talking him into driving them places; she knows that when I say NO that I mean it while H can usually be talked into things.