I don't know GIMA, it may be worth it to get her into MC at all costs. In my sitch, that was one of my goals and I have done anything I can to get H in there. Remember "ignore all of what they say and half of what they do?" Going into MC, for whatever reason she gives herself, is still positive. It will help out of limbo land. Get her in there and you can still talk about whatever you want and she's there to hear it. I'd do it. Don't give up.