Maybe you should just simply say "Im sorry that the divorce *you* wanted is costing more than *you* planned"

I dont think that it was a bad idea to open it up, would it have been better to have stewed on it for a while? I doubt it. I think that you were probably right in not responding, and you wont get a 2x4 from me. You did a better job than I would have!

Get angry if you need to, we can handle it. smile


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...