Think OW is here in my house right now!

[Gnosis]

So there is NO confusion because this has been bothering me since I posted it Gno says...

THIS IS A ONE TIME ONLY PRESCRIPTION AND ONLY APPLICABLE TO AFG

She has absolutely NOTHING to lose at this point.

The primary purpose of the prescription is to spoil herself and realize her own value and self-worth. To empower her and show her that she STILL has options. The point of making things difficult for the lowlife that inhabits her home is secondary.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Hi AFG, let me introduce myself to thee... I am Dr Gno... the dark side of Gnosis.

Here's what you should do:

1. Call the credit card company and figure out which card he's using to fund his getaway.

2. Find out the credit limit and how much is left

3. Take a trip to the mall tomorrow and spoil yourself.

AFG the cougar needs some "new man" hunting gear.

- New sexy lingerie to lure the new prey
- Designer jeans that highlight your excellent features
- Designer FMP's (F-me high heeled pumps)
- Top of the range sports gear (sneakers, aerobic shoes and accessories.
- get a new gym membership or upgrade it to Platinum Status for a year.
- go to the beauty salon
--- new hair do
--- manicure
--- pedicure
--- brazilian wax

Go wild and spoil yourself. Don't worry about cost. Push the plastic to the limit. And imagine how wonderful its going to be when dear a$$hole tries to settle the resort bill on Sunday... only to find his CC declined.

Niiiiiiice.

Nothing like a little affairus interruptus, eh Gno??

Puppy

[bluerain]

OMG can you imagine! I would love to have done something like this in my sitch!

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I'm dead serious.

[aflowergurlie]

Ok - there is evidence now that H's GF is actually an escort. I think they have an emotional relationship going on while she is still a "low-volume" supplier (website wording). My mind is reeling and spinning out of control and all of the pieces of the puzzle are starting to fit and make sense. If you have read through my entire sitch you know that H is a sex addict. I had a suspicion that he had a real GF and was possibly still seeing escorts, but not that the OW was actually one and the same.

Here's the worst part - pics of them having sex. My stomach wants to fall out of my butt right now.

H started calling and texting me earlier that he had an emergency and that I needed to contact him right away. An hour later I texted back "I'm contacting you. What is the emergency?" H "Someone went into my email account earlier and changed my account password, was it you?" AFG "Why would I do that?" H "Thats why i ask. So?" AFG "I'm busy right now and you're wasting my time" H "Fine. Ill assume thats a no. Sorry to waste your time."

Not really sure where I'm at now.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

What do you want to do, AFG?

And escort. Wow. He sounds kinda pathetic to me.

Puppy

[Puppy Dog Tails]

How did you get the pics of them having sex?

[aflowergurlie]

I still want to D. But don't know if I can not let him know that I now know his secret. Is there any point in confronting him on this?

[Gnosis]

You do not reveal ANYTHING until it works to your advantage... now it's not to your advantage.

Fill out Dr Gno's prescription.

He's paying thousands for hookers... it's time for YOU, his wife, to get some benefits out of this relationship.

EDIT: And as for his email account... print out all incriminating evidence in triplicate and distribute it to trusted parties in a seal envelope.

[aflowergurlie]

He needs serious, serious help. I'm in shock, but I'm also not because I had that feeling especially after seeing her that there was definitely more to the story. Just don't know how I should handle my interaction with him when he returns to this house.