Britt, if you haven't done it, you should spend this time away from your H deciding how you are going to deal with it if and when you find out there is an A going on.
If you think it can be forgiven then decide how you are going to set your boundaries.
If it's a dealbreaker, then figure out what you need to do to take care of yourself and your kids.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement