I saw a reference to a list of do's and don't's of DBing on another thread. Were you the sandi that posted it? If so, could you post here please or put in a link?
Yes, that would be me. I would be glad to send the list.
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Do I take a hard line on other issues? Be businesslike only? How about should WAW pay my attorney fees?
I look at it this way.......be firm but not hateful or become a bully. Do what you think is right. When you don't know what to do...and can't get to the DB Board for answers, you just look into your heart and do what is right.
Let your Lawyer guide you in the finances and unless you feel that his advice is out of line, follow it b/c he is the professional and deals with this stuff all the time.
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I don't plan to show any anger. Sadness perhaps.
Don't show either one. Why would you show her how sad you are? Do you think that would cause her to have second thoughts? Not on your life! Works just the opposite on WAW's. She would see that as being pitiful and weak. So, keep yourself together and don't show any emotion. I say to be business like at the mediation b/c if I understand it, that is what it's about.....business matters.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
