Detaching, Still. 4 years later

[Lissie]

I actually think he is even surprised he is with her..
His mom died, he doesn't speak to his sister.. His father lives across the state.. Where would he go?

I have "heard" that he is not so happy with her.. My children have seen not so great interactions.

I take it with a grain of salt from the kids.. They want their parents to be together no matter what.

Now that I look back, I kinda don't think he was MLC.. I kinda think those touch and goes he did, were to gain something.. Soften me up for something he needed. That was usually the case.

I know he has been diagnosed bipolar, I think all the weird stuff were manic episodes.

Those are just my thoughts. I wanted it to be MLC for a long time...I figured they all eventually come back if they are MLC.

My poor X was just weird :-)

Nice to "see" you mama, have great holidays.