Lissie,
I followed your story and have to admit that i am surprised that your X is still w/OW, given that he wanted to come back at one point.

I think many of us are hopeful to wait it out; just goes to show that all stats in the world do not matter when it comes to your particular situation.

But it sounds as if you are to a point of peace with the situation, and you sound good.

On the MLC question, though: Do you think your X had MLC or do you see him differently now?


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D