soleil, I was the almost WAW in my M and I wanted my H to agree to go to MC with me, and he wouldn't. I think for him, it was a matter of pride. He wouldn't talk to our Pastor or anyone. I tried once going to one by myself, but I saw right off she wasn't the one I needed to see.
It's ironic that the ones here on the board are the ones who would want to go to MC with their S......regardless if the board member was the WAS or the LBS.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!