Quote: Hey, I'm not greedy here...I just would like US, as a couple, to be first some of the time, and I don't think that's unreasonable.
I don't think it's unreasonable either...however..h told you long ago that his "family" would always come first..that hasn't changed. SO you have a choice..either be mad at him about it or look forward to a time when they're all dead and can't bother the two of you anymore. (ok that was harsh..but hey it was said to me by my h once) fact is you do see h every day right? if you and h make plans to do something and he is willing to break the plans with you to be there for them you have a choice either be there with him and his family or go do what it was you had planned anyway.
