It's very simple when it comes to the kids. You ask yourself, "What is the best thing I can do for my child to make them comfortable?" Once you answer it, you do it. Believe they will remember. She wants to pull this kind of crap, they will figure it out and they will hold it against her.
There's being a crappy wife. Then there's being a crappy mother, which I don't care what anyone says....that makes you a crappy person.
