Very helpful posts. I know I'd read a few in my lurking/research early on, but they are more helpful now that I am where I am.
There is hope.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.