You all are right! He still knows how to push my buttons. Yeah, the pastor's wife is a real nasty liar. Right....I didn't email back on your advice, and so glad I didn't.
I had asked X if he would switch weekends so I could have next weekend and he could have the kids this weekend as she has a couple Christmas choir things next weekend. He emailed back, No, can't switch b/c OW and I have plans for this weekend. I mean I think he said that purposely to hurt me; he could have just said he was busy or had plans. Oh, well, just reinforces my desire to go NC and esp. when he's acting like lately. D10 told me today X was complaining about me, and she told me he needs to look on the bright side as he's always looking on the dark side.