My biggest fear is that he moves out again and leaves us.
He knows this and he's milking it for everything its worth.
Agreed. You never set any boundaries about coming back in, so he feels free to live life the way he wants.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement