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AFG, are you going to be staying at the home from now on?


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Wow! Who was that girl??

I am well and truly humbled by your Shock and Awe!!

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Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
It sucked. And I'm still dealing with the fact that he introduced his whore to his family.
Sorry, that does suck.

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So do let it all out. Give yourself a period of time to scream and cry and whatever to get it out of your system. Then go out and do something fun.
I'm ready to go take one of those anger art therapy classes or just create my own. It's where you take like paint and eggs and stuff you can smash and throw and yell and get all your emotions out while you are "creating" your artwork. That or go to a shooting range. >;]

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More importantly, if he's going away this weekend what does that mean for your deadline of him moving out?
Legally from what the lawyer said, I can't make him move out and he can't make me move out. So, I plan on using the weekend to itemize my settlement agreement with him and have it all prepared to give to him when he returns.


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AFG, are you going to be staying at the home from now on?

Yes, until I present H with settlement agreement and receive support from him, I can't afford to leave. So I'm here for the time being.


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Wow! Who was that girl??

I am well and truly humbled by your Shock and Awe!!


Thanks Kimmie! I think that was just tremors compared to the Shock and Awe that's about to come down soon. wink


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((((AFG)))


I find it hard to believe that your H will be enjoying himself now in light of the new AFG attitude. That is mindreading, yes, but I think you have scared the --it out of him and he is running away like a little weasel.

So you are stuck in the house with him for a while? Have you thought about your coping mechanisms for this?


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Hi AFG, let me introduce myself to thee... I am Dr Gno... the dark side of Gnosis.

Here's what you should do:

1. Call the credit card company and figure out which card he's using to fund his getaway.

2. Find out the credit limit and how much is left

3. Take a trip to the mall tomorrow and spoil yourself.

AFG the cougar needs some "new man" hunting gear.

- New sexy lingerie to lure the new prey
- Designer jeans that highlight your excellent features
- Designer FMP's (F-me high heeled pumps)
- Top of the range sports gear (sneakers, aerobic shoes and accessories.
- get a new gym membership or upgrade it to Platinum Status for a year.
- go to the beauty salon
--- new hair do
--- manicure
--- pedicure
--- brazilian wax

Go wild and spoil yourself. Don't worry about cost. Push the plastic to the limit. And imagine how wonderful its going to be when dear a$$hole tries to settle the resort bill on Sunday... only to find his CC declined.


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AFG - Do what the Dr. ordered wink


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I need to make an appointment with this doctor.


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Originally Posted By: Gnosis
Hi AFG, let me introduce myself to thee... I am Dr Gno... the dark side of Gnosis.

Here's what you should do:

1. Call the credit card company and figure out which card he's using to fund his getaway.

2. Find out the credit limit and how much is left

3. Take a trip to the mall tomorrow and spoil yourself.

AFG the cougar needs some "new man" hunting gear.

- New sexy lingerie to lure the new prey
- Designer jeans that highlight your excellent features
- Designer FMP's (F-me high heeled pumps)
- Top of the range sports gear (sneakers, aerobic shoes and accessories.
- get a new gym membership or upgrade it to Platinum Status for a year.
- go to the beauty salon
--- new hair do
--- manicure
--- pedicure
--- brazilian wax

Go wild and spoil yourself. Don't worry about cost. Push the plastic to the limit. And imagine how wonderful its going to be when dear a$$hole tries to settle the resort bill on Sunday... only to find his CC declined.



I'm not a doctor, but I play one in the classroom smile

Normally I wouldn't advise this type of thing, but Dr. Gno is a genius! What a great idea. In your case, AFG...I say GO FOR IT!

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