Thanks for the replies. None of us wants to be in the position I am in ever never mind in five years.
Am I afraid to move on ? Not in my opinion, but I will not move on just for the sake of moving on. It must be for a relationship that I can cherish and be extremely happy with. I have yet to find anyone that would turn into anything like this. It seems there are allot of messed up people in the world ;-)
As far as "self medicating" goes......... Around here we call it getting a good buzz on Not that often. Maybe 5 or 6 times a year. I am not one to try and drown my sorrows. That just makes matters much worse ;-( When I talked to the X I hadn't even finished my first drink yet. Trying to be articulate with alcohol induced courage is a sure fire recipe for disaster.
So, yes it all gets to you once in a while and you can use this forum to vent instead of doing it with people that are tired of hearing about your problems. Anyone who has never dealt with a person in an MLC can't understand what it is we go through. They simply think we are "challenged" and can't move on with our lives.
More later have to run DavidA
You vote with your feet. Divorce final 12/24/2004 I Give Up !
Not that often. Maybe 5 or 6 times a year. I am not one to try and drown my sorrows. That just makes matters much worse ;-( When I talked to the X I hadn't even finished my first drink yet. Trying to be articulate with alcohol induced courage is a sure fire recipe for disaster. 