You sound good. Forgiveness is always a good thing. It helps the healing process.
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don't focus on the life you want back, b/c it's gone. Focus on what you can create with what you now have and what you can attain/achieve.
This is so important. Being able to look forward at what you can do versus looking back at what is not there anymore. Very wise words from 25. I can't tell you how many times she has gotten frusturated trying to drill that into me.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...