Irma,

You sound good. Forgiveness is always a good thing. It helps the healing process.

Quote:
don't focus on the life you want back, b/c it's gone. Focus on what you can create with what you now have and what you can attain/achieve.


This is so important. Being able to look forward at what you can do versus looking back at what is not there anymore. Very wise words from 25. I can't tell you how many times she has gotten frusturated trying to drill that into me.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...